The platform that runs on turning up runs on Friday and Saturday evenings, which are the two evenings I have not had free in six years. So the model everyone here calls the serious one is, for me, a place where I read about things I cannot attend. The shallow one at least has the decency not to require me to be anywhere.
Thirty, east London, switch, six years in. Both my arrangements ended over the calendar rather than anything interesting, which is a dull way to lose people.
My days are Monday and Tuesday. That is not a complaint so much as an offer: two full weekdays, an empty city and no queue anywhere in it. If your week is also the wrong way round, or you are retired, or you have any flexibility at all, then we start with more in common than most people on this board.
I lead slightly more often than not. I want a standing arrangement rather than something occasional, with contact that continues on the days we cannot see each other.
Not looking for anyone who will propose Friday for the fourth time. Not looking for a person who needs a lot of evenings. And not looking to be told I could simply get a different job, which is the last thing somebody said to me before I stopped replying to him.