On the model everybody recommends to beginners, the free version lets you look and not speak. I could see that four people had written to me and I could not read a word of any of it, for eleven days, until whatever offer they were dangling expired and so, apparently, did they. I am a student. That was not a decision I was able to make, and I do not think it should have been a decision at all.
Twenty four, south east, submissive, a year and a half in and none of it in person. I read a great deal and I have done nothing, which I am aware is a common combination and is not a personality.
So the written boards are where I ended up, because they cost nothing and ask for effort instead. It turns out I am much better at effort than at money. The trade is that you have to say something true about yourself in public, which took me three attempts and one very long evening.
What I want first is to meet somebody once, in daylight, somewhere ordinary, and talk for an hour with nothing attached to it. After that I would like structure. Rules, check ins, somebody who notices things.
Not looking for anyone who wants to move this somewhere private before we have exchanged two messages. Not looking to be told my age makes me easy. And not looking for anybody who thinks a young sub is a blank page, because I am not blank, I am only new.